
Janine Schindler

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Last week I introduced the concept of
EI, it’s contrast to IQ, the role it plays, and the five basic
competencies.
EI principles provide a way to
understand and assess people's behaviors, management styles, attitudes,
interpersonal skills, and potential. EI is an important consideration in
human resources planning, job profiling, recruitment interviewing and
selection, management development, customer relations and customer service,
leadership, team building and more. Unlike IQ, which takes years to
enhance, EI skills can be improved any time.
7 steps to BOOSTING YOUR EI
- Know your strengths and weaknesses. In what areas do you need to improve?
Listening? Persuasion? Self-awareness? Temper control? Before you even
try to change, ask yourself honestly, “Does this skill really
matter to me? Am I willing to put in the time and effort?”
- Define specifically the emotional areas you want to improve. Think of real situations in which new
habits would be a big help.
- Become aware of your behavior in critical situations.What do you think when
a subordinate asks you a question? How do you feel? A little
irritated? Impatient? Exactly how do you react? Do you interrupt the
person? Do you let your attention wander?
- Look for emotional role models. If you know someone who is a wonderful
listener, watch him/her closely. If not, try to visualize, in specific
detail, just how such an expert would act. Pattern your own behavior
after him, using real on-the-job situations as a learning lab.
- Seek feedback from trusted friends and coworkers. Ask them to watch how you work and give
you objective assessments.
- Track your changes, and treat lapses as learning opportunities. If you slip and revert to a pattern
you’re trying to change, don’t give yourself despairing
messages. Instead of telling yourself, “I’ll never be any
different,” ask, “What can I learn from this?”
Consider the circumstances that actually led to the lapse. Was it
stress? A deadline? Fatigue? Make it a point to observe yourself more
carefully in these situations.
- Keep practicing until the new behavior pattern has become
a real habit -- or an automatic response that you don’t have to
think about. Be patient and realistic. Meaningful change almost always
takes a matter of months -- not weeks.
One of the best and easiest tools I know
of to discover one’s strengths is DiSC®. Studies have been done
to show how people can significantly enhance personal effectiveness by
honestly evaluating their behavior and selecting self-management strategies
that maximize strengths. Organizations around the world use DiSC® to
improve effectiveness in self-awareness/self-management; peer relationships/team-building;
performance enhancement/managing others; and client relationships. |
EQ Map®
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For
a the next 30 days JAS Coaching & Training is
offering this assessment with a 30 minute one-on-one debrief session for a
special rate of $150 (that’s a $50 savings).
Contact Janine Schindlerfor
more information
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EQ
Map® is
effortless, taking only 15 minutes to complete. Your report will provide a
visual profile of your strengths and vulnerabilities at a glance, and EQ in
Action tips for changing your performance.
The Assessment:
- Measures all major dimensions of emotional intelligence
- Correlates EQ dimensions to life outcomes
- Includes measures of EQ Values and Attitudes
- Designed specifically for adults in the workplace
The Report:
- Visually maps your personal profile
- Plots your performance in four Zones from
Optimal, Proficient, Vulnerable and Caution
- Can be used again to assess improvements over time
- Gives a definition and plans for improvement for
every scale
- Discusses how each factor is directly related to
emotional intelligence
- Offers EQ In Action tips for enhancing your
performance
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About JAS Coaching & Training

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JAS Coaching & Training (JASCAT) is a
global coaching firm dedicated to helping businesses maintain an expanded
capacity for organizational learning, development, and performance to
achieve profitable and sustainable business. We help companies achieve:
Inspired Leadership that creates an environment
of trust and empowerment where people are committed to greater achievement
Motivated, Skilled, and Aligned
Workforce where your people's collaborative energy and brilliance is
channeled to attain breakthrough results.
High-Performance Organizational
Structures and Systems that enable people to produce more results with less
effort and stress. We provide high-value leadership development and
performance improvement services including:
Executive
Coaching
Leadership
Development
High-Performance
Team Development
Performance
Assessments
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Planning
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Training
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