Successful people tend to have four underlying
beliefs:
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I choose to succeed.
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I can succeed.
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I will succeed.
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I have succeeded.
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I choose to succeed.
Successful people believe that they are doing what they
choose to do, because they choose to do it. Successful
people have a high need for self-determination. The more
successful a person is, the more likely this is to be
true. When we do what we choose to do, we are committed.
When we do what we have to do, we are compliant. Having
the belief, "I choose to succeed" does not imply that
successful people are selfish. Obviously, many
successful people are great team players. It does mean
that successful people need to feel a personal
commitment to what they are doing. They need a sense of
ownership. "I choose to succeed" is a belief that is
highly correlated with achievement in virtually any
field. Adding "and I choose to change" can be a very
difficult transition. Successful people’s personal
commitment can make it hard for them to change.
I can succeed.
Successful people believe that they have the internal
capacity to make desirable things happen. It is perhaps
the most central belief shown to drive individual
success. People who believe they can succeed see
opportunities where others see threats. This comfort
with ambiguity leads people with high self-efficacy to
take greater risks and achieve greater returns. To put
it simply, they try more different things! They believe
that they have the motivation and ability to change
their world. They see success for themselves and others
as largely a function of this motivation and ability,
not luck, random chance or external factors. Successful
people often confuse correlation with causality. They
often do not realize that they are successful "because
of" some behaviors and "in spite of" others.
I will succeed.
An unflappable sense of optimism is one of the most
important characteristics of successful people.
Successful people not only believe that they can
achieve, they believe that they will achieve. This
belief goes beyond any one task. Successful leaders tend
to communicate with an overall sense of self-confidence.
Successful people tend to pursue opportunities. If they
set a goal, write the goal down and publicly announce
the goal, they will tend to do "whatever it takes" to
achieve the goal. While this sense of optimism is
generally associated with success, it can easily lead to
"overload" if it is not controlled. Successful people
tend to be extremely busy and face the danger of
over-commitment. Successful people achieve a lot, and
they often believe that they can do more than they can.
I have succeeded.
Successful people tend to have a positive interpretation
of their past performance. High achievers not only
believe that they have achieved results, they tend to
believe that they were instrumental in helping the
results get achieved. This tends to be true even if the
positive outcomes were caused by external events that
they did not control. In a positive way, successful
people are "delusional". They tend to see their previous
history as a validation of who they are and what they
have done. This positive interpretation of the past
leads to increased optimism towards the future and
increases the likelihood of future success. While the
belief, "I have been successful" has many positive
benefits; it can cause difficulty when it is time to
change behavior.
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